ശനിയാഴ്‌ച, മാർച്ച് 29, 2025

Achieving Targets- Myths and Realities

I had heard about the word target when I was a school student. At that time I was a Sanskrit Student and our teacher told about target while telling the story of Mahabharata in which how Arjun became successful in Archery. Next time I heard about this word when I was studying for Pre-degree in a college where I had joined for NCC. The Officer who was in charge of our battalion taught us about target while practicing firing. It was the point to which we had to aim while shooting and the bullet had to strike at this point. Later when I joined a bank, I again started hearing about targets and achievements. This time it was neither Archery nor bullet, it was business target.

On those days targets were mainly fixed for deposits and managers used to run helter shelter to achieve their targets at the end of every quarter. Those failed to achieve targets used to lose their chance to get promoted to the next scale. Those who achieved targets were given awards and appreciation. They were also considered in the promotion process. The responsibility of achieving the targets had rested with the branch manager who used to get the support of staff and officers working under him. But these people did not get any punishment for not achieving targets, but they used to get appreciation and good remarks in their service records which also had a weightage in considering for promotions. Hence it was a team work on those days.

Every business organization has targets for their business. A manufacturing company targets at sales and production. Why I put sales first because production should be based on sales potential. Service organizations also have targets where it is their income. The companies and service organizations fix business targets with aim of increasing profit. Profit is the base for survival. An organization earning good profit every year attracts investment. A company which is listed in the stock market and where their shares are traded definitely aim at increasing the profit in order to attract investments. All investors will invest their funds only in profit making companies and will withdraw their investments from the loss making companies. For example the Central Government had sold out their stake in loss making companies a few years back.

As already mentioned banks were targeting increase of deposits. Increase in deposits brings more liabilities and higher interest expenditure which would bring down the profits. Alternatively, targets can be fixed for loans. I used to get calls from many banks almost all days enquiring whether I wanted loan. The reason for fixing target for loans may be for generating more interest income. But insisting on achieving targets for loans alone may result into increase in non-performing assets also unless this portfolio is handled carefully. Because, the enthusiasm of managers to achieve their targets and please their bosses may end up in granting loans secured by fake assets or no assets. Today banks are competing with each other to increase their home loans portfolio. But this sector is very dangerous because of the risk involved in establishing the title of property pledged as security. Recently the Honorable Supreme Court had issued order to RBI for framing necessary guidelines to get search certificate for title of the property pledged by verifying documents for the previous 30 years. The risk of concentrating on loans is that not only it can create dead assets, but also can increase expenses by incurring legal expenses for litigation for recovery. In many cases loans may have to be written off partially or accumulated interest may have to be forgone for the purpose of recovery of principal amount. All these will affect the profit of the banks adversely.

Now the question is how the profit can be increased. Of course lending cannot be avoided completely. Lending is required for meeting statutory and social obligation where the generation of interest income is low. But loans against pledge of gold, silver etc. is considered as well secured if the supporting securities are verified for its purity and value properly. Similarly loans against pledge of shares, deposits etc. are well secured, but the interest income may be comparatively low. My suggestion is that instead of fixing targets for loans, aim at increasing profits.

For fixing profit based targets, it is necessary to identify profit centers. Profit centers are those regions or segments which are having high potentials for generating profits. Certain centers are loss making because they have no potentials for generating profits. But their existence is necessary for the other centers to make profits. Hence fixing targets appropriate to each center is also essential to be successful in achievement.

Another essential factor is people. Some people are experts in marketing and generating business that ensures high profit. But some others are good at organizing and administration. Such people should be deployed in administrative offices. Even marketing people have to be deployed based on the language they are able to speak. For example a person who speaks Malayalam well need not be good at villages in Karnataka or Telungana because in those places people will be more friendly with officials speaking their language. Hence even if the area is highly potential for profit, the personal factor may either reduce profit or delay in generating profits.

I would consider segments also for fixing targets. All segments are not equally suitable for growth. While some segments are having high growth potential, some are not. Some segments are statutory and social obligations. For example loans to farmers are essential despite its low income generation due to low interest rate. In olden days one of the major segment for generating income other than interest income was remittances like bank drafts, mail transfers and telegraphic transfers. The advent of internet banking has now eliminated the necessity of these instruments by replacing them with internet based money transfers which are more efficient, quick and costless. Segments having high growth potential will help to generate more profits.

There is time factor also which has to be considered while fixing targets. The growth is seasonal as far as some business is concerned. For example building activities will be slow during monsoon season. The floods and landslides can affect the life of people staying in hill side. So targets for loans may not work out in such centers throughout the year. If loans are given to places which are more prone to wild animals’ attack, flood and natural calamities may ultimately become a loss making process since sometimes there would social pressure to write off such loans. But these loans cannot be exempted or avoided, but it is not advisable to consider these areas for achievement of profit targets.

Many times we fail to appreciate achievements, whether it is small or big. Appreciation encourages hard work for canvassing business. But often what happens is firing and penal action for non-achieving quarterly targets without looking at the reason for achievement and giving support and guidance for achievement in the next quarter. Support and guidance increases confidence and tries hard for becoming successful.

Targets are normally fixed for a branch or the organization. Individuals are only representatives for achieving targets. Hence it is not an individual’s only responsibility for working on targets. It should be a joint effort. Hence delegation is essential so that everyone will feel responsible for achieving the targets fixed for their branch. When targets are achieved, the appreciation should be given to all irrespective of size of achievement, but those contributing major efforts deserves special appreciation and rewards. In many banks they are felicitating best performer of the month in their branches by exhibiting the name of the performer with photograph in the branch and giving rewards. Another example of giving support and guidance by top management by organizing sales exhibitions and melas like the loan melas organized banks in which the head of the organization or head of the region also takes part.

Governments also give targets to their officials for collection of taxes as well as disposal of files. Here the achievement of targets enables the governments to increase the tax collection and meet achieve the budgeted revenue collection. However, threatening officials may also generate wide spread complaints from the general public. Targets for disposal of files enable taking quick decision making by officials and reduces complaints from general public. Hence targets can bring positive and negative results too.

However, I find that there are many instances where targets are fixed without considering these factors and the officials responsible for achieving targets are threatened with punitive action like transfer to remote places or demotion. It is like loading a bullock cart with logs beyond its capacity. While discussing about the pressure on individuals from top management for achieving targets, we cannot ignore the suicides or attempts of suicides happening or happened in this sector being unable to bear the threatening of punitive action or abuses. Definitely, life should have targets, but that should be for living and not for ending the life.

വ്യാഴാഴ്‌ച, ജനുവരി 30, 2025

Future of Indian Banking, Threats and Concerns

 

A few months back I happened to read a news item in wch it was alleged that a lady employee of the accounting firm Earnest and Young succumbed due to cardiac arrest said to be consequent to the work pressure in the company. Interestingly, Ashneer Grover, the founder of BharathPe also had pointed out the undue work pressure in the corporate offices in India and had told that he had to leave the office of E&Y on the first day of joining due to the dull atmosphere in the office despite the attractive salary package offered to him. The issue has now attracted the attention of the Central Government and the political world in India and in this article I am trying to invite the attention of the relevant authorities to similar situations in the banking sector too, especially faced by women employees.

The work pressure in the banking sector is very high now a days because of which many officers working in banks, especially ladies are reaching home very late at night. Recently, one of my friends told me that his friend’s daughter who was working in a public sector bank in Bengaluru used to reach home by 9.30 pm or even 10 pm on almost all days. Unfortunately nobody is bothered about the working condition of ladies in banks. Some of my relatives’ and friends’ daughters or wives are working in banks and I have seen the pathetic condition of their families. There are many cases of bank officials committing suicide due to undue work pressure, while a majority opted for voluntary retirement. In an article appeared in The Sunday Guardian dated 11th February 2024, the author Abhinandan Mishra had highlighted the alarming rate of suicide deaths in banking sector, which according to him was over 500 in the past decade.

The management of banks are more interested in achieving targets only and not concerned about the health of the employees. I had been a senior level officer of a leading private sector bank for 27 years before switching over to teaching profession and had never experienced such work pressure. On those days we did not have computer and the work was done manually. Still we could finish our works daily before 6 pm on almost all days, except on half yearly and annual closing days. Ladies were not allowed to remain in office after 6 pm on those days. But now the situation is different. I am seeing lady officers staying in my adjacent flat, coming late almost every day. Often they are forced to work on holidays also.

Working after office hours is not a good practice. At some point of time, sitting late in office was considered as inefficiency or an opportunity to commit frauds. Now a days sitting late has become a routine affair said to be due to increase in work. The increase in work pressure is due to lack of work planning and also because the officers are not trained in time management, prioritization, delegation etc. Work allotment is also not according to the knowledge, capacity and expertise of individuals. The staff postings are not done considering the knowledge and ability of the staff to converse in the language of the customers of the branch where they are transferred/posted. A person who is not able to communicate in the local language will find it difficult to achieve targets. But the superiors are ignoring this fact while measuring the achievement of targets. Work pressure also increases in the absence of adequate staff in the branch. Incidentally, I have observed that there was about 20 to 25 employees in the branch where I have account. Now there are only less than 10 employees including the branch manager in this branch. Almost all the employees including the branch manager were ladies and on many days I had seen lights in the branch after 8 pm indicating that the staff were working inside the branch even after 8 pm. I wonder, what is the protection for these ladies where there are no security personnel to take care of their safety.

Recently, I had read a comment by the Honb’le Finance Minister Mrs. Nirmala Sita Raman advising parents to train their wards to cope up with pressure. While the parents have definitely then responsibility to train their kids to manage pressures in domestic life, I wonder, how can they train their sons or daughters to manage work pressures in offices, because many of them may be either illiterate or do not have knowledge of the work pattern in the offices where these young boys or girls are going to work. Is it not the responsibility of the organizations to give adequate training to a newly recruited employee before dumping all the works on him or her? Is it a healthy practice to ignore the health and mental conditions of an employee by the superiors? There are companies like Tatas who consider the employees as their asset and take care of their health and wellbeing.

There was a time when the banks were giving training to the newly recruited persons in all areas of their work. For this purpose they were posted in different branches and administrative offices during the initial one year so that they would get knowledge about all areas of the work they were expected to perform. I understand that there was a system of measuring training deficiency through the annual performance appraisal process in many banks. Some banks were giving training in behavioural areas too either by inviting expert guest faculty or sending them to other training institutions. Prof. Uday Pareekh and T. V Rao were conducting such behavioural training programmes. A few banks were having counselling cells and distressed persons were identified and were given counselling periodically.  I am doubtful about whether the banking system now follows a proper training mechanism for behavioural correction and support.

I am writing this now because I had read a direction from Central Government to take action against non-performing employees. Performance always need support and guidance from top management. I am afraid, the direction can be misused by bosses, if they do not like a subordinate. It is easy for a superior to build up cases and initiate action against a subordinate as also conceal the good performance by not reporting to higher authorities or recording in the service files.

Recently I happened to read an article by the renowned investment professional Warren Buffet. I would like to quote excerpts from his article here.

  1. “The Over-Promisor: Buffett has consistently warned against CEOs making bold and specific earnings forecasts. Such behavior can pressure employees to deliver results at any cost, even if it means fudging numbers. A boss who consistently over-promises might cultivate a culture of short-termism and potentially unethical behavior.
  2. The Ego-driven Leader: When ego becomes a driving factor, it can lead to misguided decisions. A boss whose decisions are heavily influenced by personal ego or the desire for personal recognition rather than the company’s good can be a red flag.
  3. Poor Communicator: Communication is vital in leadership. Buffett illustrates with an example how even light-hearted comments can have unintended consequences. A boss who doesn’t communicate clearly or sends mixed messages can inadvertently lead the team astray.
  4. The Short-Term Thinker: Buffett is known for his long-term investment strategy. Similarly, in leadership, focusing solely on short-term gains without a vision for the future can lead to instability and reactive decision-making. A boss who is always chasing the next quarter’s results at the expense of long-term growth might be one to approach cautiously.
  5. Lack of Integrity: One of Buffett’s most famous quotes is, “It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.” He values integrity immensely. A boss who cuts corners behaves unethically, or doesn’t uphold the values they preach is one Buffett would advise avoiding.
  6. Inflexibility: While Buffett values sticking to one’s principles, he also recognizes the importance of adaptability. A boss unwilling to change or adapt, even when presented with new information or changing circumstances, can be detrimental to growth.
  7. Lack of Value for Employees: Buffett believes in the value of his team and often credits his success to the people he works with. A boss who doesn’t value, respect, or treat their employees well is likely not one he’d endorse.” (https://www.newtraderu.com/2023/08/10/warren-buffett-watch-out-for-this-kind-of-boss/)  
In his teachings Warren Buffet has specifically highlighted traits such as integrity, long-term vision, clear communication, humility and adaptability as essential traits. I am doubtful of whether the senior officials of the banks possess any of these qualities. Interestingly I found that lady officers were more harassed by their lady bosses. Often personal ego plays greater role in taking decisions.

 Many actions are taken without conducting any enquiry and giving opportunity to the aggrieved person to explain his/her problems. Though the Internal Complaint Cells (ICCs) are constituted under the ICC Act 2013, and ICCs are constituted in banks, many are afraid of complaining because they might face with some penal action like transfer to an inconvenient location. As per Section 3 (2) (ii), (iii) and (iv) of the Act, implied or explicit threat of detrimental treatment in a woman’s employment, implied or explicit threat about her present or future employment status or interference with her work is a punishable offence. But how many women have complained about the ill-treatment received by them and how many actions are taken against the culprits? The current direction by the Central Government will be a tool in the hands of those who want to eliminate people whom they don’t like.

The academic institutions in Kerala are now worried that the number of students seeking admission is coming down every year, leading to the closure of some of them. It is a fact that the number of children going to other states or abroad after their schooling in Kerala is increasing every year. A report appeared in The Hindu dated June 14, 2024 shows that the number of students migrated has increased by about 100 per cent, from 129763 in 2018 to 2.25 lakhs in 2023. Though campus placement is there and students get placement offer from banks, many are not prepared to accept bank jobs because of high target oriented approach and unfavorable working conditions. In many banks HR department is functioning as Human Reprimand Department than Human Resources Department. Now The Central Government wanted banks to send monthly performance review of employees to them and prematurely retire who have completed 20 years of services or 50 years of age in the case of officers and 30 years of services or 55 years of age in the case of award staff who are found to be inefficient. The question is what are the parameters for deciding efficiency?  Even now many employees opt for voluntary retirement after completing the eligible period of service. The Central Government direction will definitely increase the vacancies in banks drastically. Many banks are experiencing staff shortage even now and the situation is going to be worse in the coming days.

 

Trade unions in banks were very strong till a few years back. But since now almost all the banking transaction have become online and only very few customers would be visiting the branches, the staff requirement also came down. Compared to pre-computerization period, presently the bargaining power of trade unions has come down drastically. Now there is no value for a strike because the customers have other methods for accessing to their bank and do the transactions. Only people earning daily wages and poorest of the poor depend on physical banking. Interestingly, in the latest Bipartite Settlement the trade union of bank employees and the bankers’ forum, a clause was added empowering the management to take action against non-performing employees. Hence the trade unions have now lost a chance to oppose the Central Government move.

 

Many senior citizens like me are depending on the interest earned on their life time savings kept on banks. Now I am afraid that the Central Government’s move will only help in destroying the banking sector as they have done to the public sector undertaking BSNL. As we all know many BSNL customers have shifted to other service operators because of poor connectivity and poor service. The new generation does not prefer bank jobs despite the high salary package. How the banks are going to fill up the vacancies arising out of premature retirement as directed by the Government and voluntary retirement by employees is a matter of concern under the present circumstance. The Times of India dated 29th December 2024 carried a news item which highlighted the concern expressed by Reserve Bank of India on the rapidly increasing attrition rate in Private Sector Banks. According to the report of RBI, the attrition rate has risen sharply over the last three years to around 25 per cent. RBI said that the increasing turnover would result into significant operational risks, including disruptions in customer service and the loss if institutional knowledge. According to RBI “Banks need to implement strategies like improved onboarding processes, providing extensive training and carrier development opportunities, mentorship programs, competitive benefits and a supportive work place culture to build long-term employee engagement”. Contrary to this what is now happening in the banking sector is harassment and demotivation of officers. I think, RBI need to pay immediate attention to this aspect and ensure implementation of corrective steps.

 In the last Independence Day speech, our Honorable Prime Minister was speaking about Nari Sakthi and commitment of his government to protect women. I hope our Honorable Finance Minister is well aware about the role of a woman who is not only an employee, but is a wife, mother, daughter, granddaughter, and niece and holds heavy domestic responsibilities. We have National Women Commission and State Women Commissions, but none of these establishments could raise voice against the harassment received by the women employees and officers in banks. If the NWC or the Women’s welfare department of the Government conduct an independent study about the working conditions of women in banks, more stories of harassment in work place may be revealed. I am writing this article hoping that some authorities will read this and initiate some corrective action.

ബുധനാഴ്‌ച, ഡിസംബർ 09, 2015

LINKING RIVERS IN INDIA

It is estimated that there are around 200 rivers in India which are listed and there may be more unlisted rivers. In India the monsoon season differs in different parts. The strong monsoon and the unscientific drainage system often cause flood in different parts of the country. A solution to this problem is linking of rivers. The linking of rivers has the following advantages:

1. The excess water flowing into the rivers which inundates the adjacent areas can be diverted to the areas having deficiency of water.
2. The links can be used as waterways providing opportunities for developing excellent inland water transport system which will be a major attraction for the tourists.
3. The water thus received in drought areas would be an excellent source for irrigation for crops.
4. Better irrigation facilities enables bringing of more waste land under cultivation and thus more agriculture products can be grown.
5. Linking rivers reduces expenditure on flood management and rehabilitation and brings revenue to the government by way more tourism opportunities.

Three years back people in Kerala experienced the problem of flood when water was released from Mullaperiyar Dam. Last week Chennai had the worst experience. A few years back Utharakhand suffered heavily on account of rain and flood. Rain is the source of water provided by the nature and it is our duty to preserve it. Now the rain was is flown into the backwaters and sea. I hope the Central Government will initiate necessary step in this direction.

ഞായറാഴ്‌ച, ജനുവരി 06, 2013

WEEKEND THOUGHTS


WHERE ARE WE GOING?
Sitting in my office on the last day of the first week of 2013, this thought came to my mind. Where are we going? The first thing came to my mind is the absurdity of the land reforms implemented by the first Communist Ministry in Kerala. There was a specific reason for this subject coming to my mind. On the previous day we had a discussion on this topic.
It was in 1957 that the first Communist Ministry came to power in Kerala. They were busy in bringing out pro-labour rules. They found that the agricultural labourers were widely exploited by the so called Zamindars. So they decided to bring ceiling in land holdings and capture the excess land owned by private land owners. The excess land so captured was distributed among the landless labourers. A good initiative, isn’t it? The successive Congress and Congress led collision governments also followed the same path eying on the vote banks.
Soon the people who were owners of tens and thousands of acres of land became landless or owners of small holdings. My father was employed in a Namboodiri Mana (the house where Namboodiris stayed are known as Mana, Illam etc. in Kerala) who owned vast area of land spread across the State and my father used to travel these places to collect the lease rent from the lessees. After the land reforms all the land were given to the lessees after accepting a small amount as compensation. The large scale subdivision and fragmentation took place in Kerala enabled a large number of people owning small pieces of land. Soon these small landowners realized it was not economical for them to cultivate the land because of the high cost of operation. Many of them filled the cultivable land which gave the state rice to feed the masses to a great extent and sold it as small house plots. Some of them leased-out the land for starting brick manufacturing units. Large scale brick manufacturing converted this cultivable land into deep pools. Now these pools pose threat to the human life in many places. In Malayalam people used to say kulamthonduka (digging pond) for destroying a family or house or assets.
We had joint family system in the state. The parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters lived under one roof. The family had a common landholding. They cultivated in this land and produced paddy, vegetables, fruits etc. We had lot of greenery in the State. The traditional families had the so called Sarppakkavu ( a small thick forest) and ponds in their family property. There were a number of children in the family. So they never felt loneliness. The family members joined together in the evening and offered prayers irrespective of the cast and creed. Every Hindu family had the system of burning the traditional Nilavilakku (oil lamp) at dusk and place it in front of the front door. Grandparents, women and children used to sit around this lamp and chant prayers. They used to celebrate birthdays and festivals during which all the family members sat together and dined. People had time to look after the aged. The older people never felt loneliness. They had the company of the sons, daughters, nephews, nieces and their children. There was no need of Aaya to look after the children. How much pleasant those days were?
Now the subdivision and fragmentation of land played a significant role in bringing up the micro-family culture. As soon as the son or daughter got married, they shifted to a new house. The flat culture came to Kerala only very recently. Before that every one preferred to have an independent villa or house.  As they became independent, they forgot about their aged parents. In many houses aged parents live alone or under the mercy of a servant. On dying they have to wait in air conditioned glass cases till their sons and daughters arrive to conduct the last rites. There are instances where the dead body had to be kept over one month since the sons and daughters did not get leave or they had other engagements like their children’s examination etc. In some cases the aged parents are pushed to an old-age home so that their burden of looking after the parents is limited to sending the monthly charges to the institution. The brothers and sisters meet each other greet only sparingly. In many cases their children did not know each other. What a culture, isn’t it?
The desire to own independent houses dragged the youths into debt trap. Many of them constructed houses costing a fortune beyond their capacity by borrowing leaving them with no savings and only debt. Imagine that instead of leaving their ancestral home, had they lived there itself by building additional living spaces above the house to accommodate additional members, a common kitchen to feed every one, a common court yard for children to play and lot of fun in the evenings, how much pleasant the life would have been. Now the high debt burden pushed many people to mental agony and in order to escape they started drinking. The government found that by promoting drinking in large scale, they can increase their income. Though Mahatma Gandhi worked against alcoholism, his followers are promoting it. What a contradiction?
The suicide rates in the State are also increasing mainly because of the loss of mental piece. In a joint family system they could have shared their agonies with their kith and kin, brothers and sisters, parents and grandparents. But now the loneliness leads them to depression and the number of psychiatric patients is increasing.  The alcoholism and psychological imbalances made people more aggressive. As a result the number of attacks and murders has increased substantially. Daily we are reading in news paper stories of son killing father and vice-versa, husband killing and the other way too or brothers fighting with each other and killing either one or both etc.
The available land is now being misused. There were three airports in Kerala, Calicut, Kochi and Thiruvanathapuram. Now we have airport in Kannur. A new airport is planned in Pathanamthitta. We need not wonder if airports are constructed in every district. We are forgetting that we are using the precious cultivable land for this extravaganza. How many people are using airlines for their travel in each district? What is the rate of utilization of airline services by passengers? Now almost all airlines are running with huge losses. In 1994-95 the flight charges to Delhi from Kochi was around Rs.10000. In 2006 I could fly to and from Delhi by spending Rs.7500.  But now the charges are again increasing substantially as the airline companies have to pay the utilization charges to each airport which they are using. In the absence of enough passengers, they will end up with huge losses. Instead of constructing more and more airports why can’t we link the existing airports with rail, road and water transport systems with excellent amenities and greater speed?
Speaking about land, I found that lack of proper planning resulted into large area of land being occupied by abandoned roads. Many of these roads are unfinished since the project might have been abandoned midway. Now we cannot use this land for any cultivation purpose.
The pleasant days have gone. The values have been eroded. People have forgotten to love each other. The meaning of love has been taken in the negative sense and not only young girls and women even the older ones too have no safety here. If things are moving like this where are we going?
Let’s enjoy the weekend.


ഞായറാഴ്‌ച, ഓഗസ്റ്റ് 12, 2012

UNIVERSITY JOBS ABROAD

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ചൊവ്വാഴ്ച, ജനുവരി 10, 2012

ONE SECOND!!!!!

We have only one second in this world! You don’t believe me, is it not?
But still I would say we have only one second, because I speak from my experience.
2008, February 8. I was coming back home from my Institute. As I was driving through the busy Sea Port- Air Port Road, my mobile rang continuously. Usually, I do not answer to mobile calls while I am driving.  But when I found that it was from my home, I lifted the phone. My wife was online, eagerly inquiring about when I would reach home. I replied “within another 30 minutes.”
When I was crossing the Mathandavarma Bridge at Aluva, again my phone rang. I lifted the phone and again my wife was online. I told her that I would be reaching within another 5 minutes.
I reached home and found that my father-in-law was eagerly waiting for me for taking his supper. One of my wife’s cousins was also there. My wife told that father-in-law was frequently enquiring when I would come, and that was why she called me.
Even without changing my dress, I sat beside him. He closely held the hand of my wife’s cousin with his one hand, and put his other hand on my hand. My mother-in-law started giving him wheat gruel, which he used to take every night. As he was taking the gruel he was talking to us. My wife was standing beside us and looking on.
One spoon..........Second spoon........Third spoon......the fourth spoonful of gruel he did not gulped. Instead he kept it in his mouth. So mother-in-law told him to gulp. But he was staring at us and slowly bent upon my shoulders and closed his eyes.
I found that his heart beat had stopped and there was no pulse.
Really we could not believe it.
There was not even a second to allow him to complete the food.
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My neighbor father had woken up as usual and had his usual morning bath, prayer and morning coffee.
He settled down on the sofa in the drawing room. His son was sitting adjacent to him reading the day’s news paper.
He found his father taking a quick nap and did not want to disturb him.
His mother came to the drawing room to remind the gentleman about taking medicine. She had the tablet and a glass of water with her.
She called him. But there was no response.
She went near him and touched his shoulders.
He came down to one side.
Hearing a scream from his mother, the son raised his head from the paper and found his father was no more.
Again one Second!!!!
My close friend Aravindan was comfortably living with family in Surat in Gujarat. He was employed in a company there.
His daughter was studying for engineering in Ahmadabad and son was in school
A few years back during one vacation he went to Ahmadabad to take her daughter back home.
They had planned to go to the native place during that vacation and had finalised all travel plans.
He had applied for leave and that was sanctioned.
All of them were happy.
They were returning home from Ahmadabad to Surat in a bus. His daughter was sitting adjacent to him.
The bus moved and both of them were talking.
After some time she found that he stopped talking and was dozing.
She did not wake him up. She looked through the window and was watching the scenery.
As the bus took a turn, he leaned to her shoulders and she realized that he was motionless.
At first she could not believe. But soon she realized the truth and suddenly scream came out of her throat.
The bus stopped suddenly and people surrounded them.
Again one second!!!!
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The Doctor and family had gone on a holiday outing with their friends and relatives. They had hired a houseboat and decided to spend their time in the Vembandu Lake. 
They spent lot of time with fun and entertainments in the middle of the lake.
After the sumptuous lunch, they decided to go back and started their return trip. As the boat was taking a turn, the Doctor climbed up the boat to take photographs.
Unfortunately he lost balance and fell into the lake.
Everyone was watching as he fell into the deep lake.
The boat crew immediately jumped into the water to save him. But they could do nothing, before that the body had vanished and could be recovered only in the next day morning.
Again one second!!!!
A few years back one of my colleagues in the bank, a senior official, went to his native place with family.
Whenever he go to this place he used to swim in the river. He was an expert swimmer and used to swim across the river.
On that day also he jumped into the river and swam.
His wife, son, daughter, brother everyone was watching him swim across the river. He reached the other shore and came back.
As he reached the middle of the river, suddenly he went down.
 Everyone thought that he was diving.
He then came up and waved his hands then went down again. People on the shore waited for him to come back again.
But he did not. His body could be recovered only on the next day.
It was a matter of one second!!!
The story of one second never ends.
It continues for ever.
We know his presence through the absence of our most loved one.
We know he was here through the loss of our dearest.
We do not know when he will reappear.
All of us are passengers in a train.
The entry station and exit station are predetermined.
The unsolicited visitor will be at our exit station to take us with him.
Rarely we get prior information before we reach the station.
But it is sure we have to get down at this station.
For some people the journey is pretty long, but for some it is short; there a few who enter and exit soon.
So think of; during this journey, why should we quarrel with each other?
Why can’t we make good friendship and make the journey a pleasant experience; not for us, but for others.
Recollect your own experiences of this one second and share with others and make them understand the value of time.
The time is too precious. It is for doing something good, something creative, and something useful.
Now always this story of one second when you do something.
Then
I can accept my one second with delight.



ശനിയാഴ്‌ച, ഡിസംബർ 04, 2010